Is the customer always right?
A very controversial question to ask, yes – and despite what I’ve always said (that customers most definitely are right), what I think is another matter. What if they don’t know what they want from a freelancer?
This month I’ve had two new clients receive the work I’d provided negatively. Not in a spiteful sense but in the spirit of “It wasn’t what we wanted”.
This could have very easily knocked my confidence (in fact, it did) but I had treble that amount of new customers in the same period who were more than pleased with the work I produced. Those successful new clients were impressed that I’d summarised their requirements and delivered above and beyond their expectations.
So if I’m conjuring up the same standard of work, and if I’m asking the same questions to all clients, what went wrong with the other two?
I’ll throw another thought into the fire – perhaps the clients didn’t know what they wanted (and therefore could not translate that to me) but could tell what they didn’t want when they saw it?
If this is the case, and because of my desire to keep clients happy and win future work, I can’t charge them for work that’s not what they want – meaning I could go round in circles, over and over again, using time that could be better spent on work that will earn money.
It seems to be whenever I use the word ‘draft’. As a writer of various communications and material, I suggest, in situations where there’s no firm brief, that I put something down first and we work from that. However, this seems to be a green light for them to reject what I offer and for my time to be given away for free.
Am I wrong to care, or to take things personally?
This is a very hard subject for me to address, simply because I take it personally if someone isn’t happy with my work. I know I shouldn’t and it’s just business, but as I take such pride in what I do, it feels as if I’ve failed if I don’t get it spot on first time. Luckily, (or it may not be down to luck), I have plenty of regular clients who are more than satisfied with what I do and I enjoy a great relationship with them.
Perhaps you’d agree that I was at fault, that it’s clear I’m doing something wrong or missing something – if so, please tell me what it is! I’m genuinely interested, as you can imagine this causes me stress.
Water off a duck’s back?
I admire those freelancers and professionals that can bounce negativity off their backs – or better still, convert it to positivity. Please share that magic with me!
As a freelancer, it’s my reputation out there. Each dissatisfied customer is a lead and income stream lost. I can’t afford for that to happen.
One contact suggested I’m not doing my job correctly, in the sense that I hadn’t asked the right questions to prompt what the customer doesn’t know they want. I agree with this in principle but knowing the situations and clients personally, as opposed to any generalising, these were experts in their field and I felt that interrogating them further than I did would have been a little insulting. Maybe that was the issue.
I’ve been in business for a few years now but this is proving a difficult period for me – why now, I don’t know. Is this normal? Am I?

